Don’t Be a Backseat Driver


Here you will find a Collection of Ideas, Images, Meditations, Reflections, and Thoughts – These items resonate with me. I hope they will inspire you. Passion is the path to health. If you find your passion, you find your vitality and you revitalize. Stay on the path!

Inspired by I is for If Opportunity Doesn’t Knock, Build a Door – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

When I first read this quote, I was pleasantly surprised about the part “build a door”. Perhaps you were, as well? Other responses might be, “oh yeah, that’s what I would do” or “no way, who would do that?” Our experiences and our genetic makeup play a role in shaping how we are, and will unquestionably have an effect on how we would react to any given situation. If you’ve had a string of bad luck, you could react pessimistically. Your faith is being tested, and your doubts could be on the rise. If you typically think “outside of the box”, you may approach “building this door” with creativity.  On the other hand, you may be afraid of “building this door” because you lack confidence and or skill.  You may also be in need of motivation, if you aren’t willing to put in the work it takes. But if you are naturally a proactive person, chances are you will be prepared to “build the door”.

As stated previously, our experiences and our genetic makeup shape how we are, and past experiences can be an indicator of future performance (that’s why many establishments rely on behavioural interviews). However, a paradigm shift can change all this. It begins with becoming more aware of yourself, and being open-minded to seeing things from a different perspective. These things don’t, of course, change overnight but little changes in attitude can go a long way.

The point of this is that sometimes we all feel stuck or trapped. Some of us do something about it, and some of us don’t. Responsibilities may play a role in this, when timing isn’t right. But you can still do something about it. Use this time to prepare – take a course, research, network, put aside some money…All of these will help you to get unstuck and move you forward in the direction of a new opportunity. The key is to live each day in hope – always have something to look forward to or to work towards.

Every day we are faced with decisions, big and small, which ultimately affect the direction of our lives. Where are you going? Where do you want to go? Sometimes we forget we are in the driver’s seat. A variety of choices are always available. Don’t be a backseat driver; take the wheel in your hands. Adjust your approach to change your outlook, and make it happen!

Are you ready for opportunity?