“Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie”???

Inspired by N is for Never Lie, Cheat, or Steal – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE


Although some people say, “Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie” or “Hurt me with the truth, never comfort me with a lie”, I don’t believe this always holds true. Know your audience and gauge the circumstances.

“Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates: is it true, is it necessary, is it kind?” But what if being true isn’t being kind? Then go with is it necessary? “Hear all, see all, say nothing.” Or at least use a filter. Sometimes, it’s about giving what is needed – If you are choosing between being kind and being right – choose being kind. “You have the choice – choose to be kind, honest, sincere, strong, loving, and always true to yourself.”

Never lie, cheat or steal.

T is for Trustworthy – Be trustworthy, have integrity, your word is important.

A is for Authenticity – Be true to yourself, be who you are, shine, stand up for what you believe in.

C is for Choices – We are faced with choices all day long. Be proud of the choices you make. Be kind.

T is for Truth – Use TACT when speaking the truth.


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