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Perspectives, Perceptions, and Expectations

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Here you will find a Collection of Ideas, Images, Meditations, Reflections, and Thoughts – These items resonate with me. I hope they will inspire you. Passion is the path to health. If you find your passion, you find your vitality and you revitalize. Stay on the path!

Inspired by U is for Understand Yourself in Order to Better Understand Others – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

Perspectives, Perceptions, and Expectations – A Poem by Darlene Wiggers

There are three sides to every story:

Your side,

Their side,

And somewhere in the middle is the truth.

So don’t judge.

You don’t have all the facts.

You don’t know where people have been,

Or where they’re at now.

And on top of that,

Each person’s nature is different:

They may like to talk, they may like to keep to themselves.

They may be more sensitive, or less sensitive than you.

They may be stronger, or weaker than you…

You can apply a spectrum to anything,

And where you lay on it will be different from someone else.

So don’t judge.

Some people judge far too easily and are not very forgiving.

Before you complain about someone else’s faults, take a good look at your own.

Each person has many layers.

And even if someone wears their heart on their sleeve,

You still don’t see it all.

At that moment, they may be strong enough,

And they may be selective in what they choose to reveal.

Someone could be really hurting, and you may not have a clue.

Set high expectations and rise – good words to live by

And usually works.

But sometimes not.

So be prepared to make adjustments.

You may need to lower expectations.

Don’t be so hard on yourself, or others.

You may expect yourself or others to act in a certain way,

Be in a certain place,

Do the appropriate thing –

But maybe that’s not possible at this time.

You may be ready, but at that time others may not be.

Maybe they can’t put on a strong face at that moment.

Maybe they can’t be there for you because they need to be there for themselves.

So give yourself or them a pass, and let it go.

Even if you don’t understand, even if it doesn’t make sense –

Because you don’t really know the whole truth.

 

“When Angels are Near Feathers Appear”

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Over the last week or two, I have come across a number of white feathers. Yes, it could be just a coincidence, but I decided to see what others have said about feathers.  A popular idea is “When angels are near feathers appear”. Since this idea speaks to me, I am going with this.

Click here to see what Melanie Beckler has to say about the symbolic meaning of feathers.

https://www.ask-angels.com/spiritual-guidance/angel-feathers-meaning-finding-feathers/

It comes down to one simple thing: How bad do you want it?

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Inspired by J is for Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

There are many ways to define success, but this entry is not about that. For the purpose of this entry, I am thinking of success as something towards which you are working.

Sometimes when you work hard towards something, you may begin to wonder if it is really worth it after all? You are putting in so much time and as the saying goes: “a lot of blood, sweat, and tears”. But remember, no one said it was going to be easy. At this time, you need to dig deep and do some soul searching. You need to ask yourself, “Is this something I really want?” It is important that this is your goal and not someone else’s. After all, it is your life. If it is definitely not what you want, then stop reading right now. But if it is what you want, or even if you’re not sure, please read on. You can decide on this later. Maybe you’ll have an “aha moment”, and realize that it is what you want, after all.

You should try to visualize what things would look like if you achieved this goal. If you have doubts and are not happy with what you see, then paint a different picture:  see it in a positive light; see it as though things worked out. See yourself being confident in this role; see yourself being happy in this role. Now, keep that picture at the forefront of your mind, and don’t let go of it!

“The reason why people give up so fast is because they tend to look at how far they still have to go, instead of how far they have come.” As you work towards a goal, it’s okay to pause and reflect, even if you are so busy. Take a moment, and remember all the little successes that have brought you to this point. Yes, it was hard, but focus on the positive. It might be good to write down your successes and or talk to someone about them. Your successes are very real, and you are the one who did it! You made it happen! Don’t discount this – there is great value in what you have done so far! Give yourself a pat on the back! Take a moment to relish these little successes that have brought you to this point.

“Success is no accident. It’s hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice, and most of all, love for what you are doing or learning to do.” “Success demands for sacrifices: Sacrifice of sleep, sacrifice of entertainment, sacrifice of comfort zone.” And

really “it comes down to one simple thing: how bad do you want it?” I know, you’re tired, and you don’t know if you can do this anymore, but you are loved and you have lots of support. Believe in yourself. You can do this! And sacrifice always comes before success, so you’re going to have to work for it. As it is said in microeconomics, there is an “opportunity cost”. You are going to have to give up something in order to get what you want.

You may not even like what you have to do now, but remember the shape of things to come will be different. And what you have to do may make you feel uncomfortable – but you are going to have to get out of your comfort zone to see this through. And you will grow, as a result: “Be willing to sacrifice comfort for growth.” This is the time to remind yourself of: “See the end result in a positive light; see it as though things worked out. See yourself being confident in this role; see yourself being happy in this role. Now, keep that picture at the forefront of your mind, and don’t let go of it.” In other words, “keep your eyes on the prize!”

In the meantime, “Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.” And remember, “in order to achieve your goals you must make sacrifices, commit daily, overcome challenges and work your plan. No one can do it for you. It is up to you.” But no matter what, “Never sacrifice these three things: your family, your heart, or your dignity.”

And when you achieve your goal, and you pause, reflect, and judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it, I hope you celebrate and say that it was worth it! The harder you work at something, the more you appreciate the result. This is similar to Newton’s Third Law: “Every action has an equal but opposite reaction.” And if you didn’t work that hard, it’s still a win! But what I mean is that you appreciate it more if you worked harder – it’s the equality of the exchange.

Don’t Be a Backseat Driver

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Inspired by I is for If Opportunity Doesn’t Knock, Build a Door – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

When I first read this quote, I was pleasantly surprised about the part “build a door”. Perhaps you were, as well? Other responses might be, “oh yeah, that’s what I would do” or “no way, who would do that?” Our experiences and our genetic makeup play a role in shaping how we are, and will unquestionably have an effect on how we would react to any given situation. If you’ve had a string of bad luck, you could react pessimistically. Your faith is being tested, and your doubts could be on the rise. If you typically think “outside of the box”, you may approach “building this door” with creativity.  On the other hand, you may be afraid of “building this door” because you lack confidence and or skill.  You may also be in need of motivation, if you aren’t willing to put in the work it takes. But if you are naturally a proactive person, chances are you will be prepared to “build the door”.

As stated previously, our experiences and our genetic makeup shape how we are, and past experiences can be an indicator of future performance (that’s why many establishments rely on behavioural interviews). However, a paradigm shift can change all this. It begins with becoming more aware of yourself, and being open-minded to seeing things from a different perspective. These things don’t, of course, change overnight but little changes in attitude can go a long way.

The point of this is that sometimes we all feel stuck or trapped. Some of us do something about it, and some of us don’t. Responsibilities may play a role in this, when timing isn’t right. But you can still do something about it. Use this time to prepare – take a course, research, network, put aside some money…All of these will help you to get unstuck and move you forward in the direction of a new opportunity. The key is to live each day in hope – always have something to look forward to or to work towards.

Every day we are faced with decisions, big and small, which ultimately affect the direction of our lives. Where are you going? Where do you want to go? Sometimes we forget we are in the driver’s seat. A variety of choices are always available. Don’t be a backseat driver; take the wheel in your hands. Adjust your approach to change your outlook, and make it happen!

Are you ready for opportunity?

The Greatest Investment of All!

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Here you will find a Collection of Ideas, Images, Meditations, Reflections, and Thoughts – These items resonate with me. I hope they will inspire you. Passion is the path to health. If you find your passion, you find your vitality and you revitalize. Stay on the path!

 

Inspired by G is for Give More than You Planned To – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

The Greatest Investment of All!

We often associate giving with the giving of things or money, but there is so much more to it than this. You can give your love, your time, and you can give of yourself. Consider how valuable these things are.

Think of the times when you have given gifts such as a toy, a sweater, or jewelry. Now compare these to gifts of love and time – how you make someone feel and experiences you share with them. It could be as simple as a compliment or a note of encouragement to brighten someone’s day, or time away with your undivided attention – time without the distractions of cell phones, internet, and television. Giving love and time like this builds character and memories.

And think about how much you give of yourself every single day. What you give is what you get back at least ten-fold. Of course, there are times when you lack motivation and “you’re just not into it”. But it’s important to monitor these times, and not let them become the bulk of your lifetime. “If you are too lazy to plow, don’t expect a harvest.” It’s entirely up to us.  Our life depends on the choices we make each and every day, and these choices not only have an effect on you, but many other people too. You can “give up, give in, or give it all you’ve got.”

And sure, sometimes you get into a rut, and maybe you dream about the life you want. But “you don’t get what you wish for, you get what your work for.” If you don’t like what is in front of you – change it! “You’ve got what it takes, but it will take everything you’ve got.”

This involves planning and developing a vision. You will have to be determined and persevere – but be prepared because sometimes it won’t be easy. The currency may be your blood, sweat and tears. Are you prepared to give that? And, sometimes it won’t work out. Self-talk helps here: “You didn’t come this far to only come this far.”

Although it’s disappointing, remind yourself there’s always Plan B or C.

Sometimes you will have to go through a storm to appreciate the beauty of a rainbow. And although it’s not easy to find this treasure, it is definitely worth it. Share your talent and let yourself shine. “The meaning of life is to find your gift, the purpose of life is to give it away.” This is what will give you joy and inner peace.

So the next time, you’re debating on what to give someone or you’re feeling unmotivated, and don’t feel like giving it all you’ve got – remember “from little seeds grow mighty trees.” To reap these benefits, you’re going to have to invest in the gift of your time. “Your greatness is not what you have, it’s what you give”

A Reflection on Being Authentic

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Inspired by E is for Everything You’re Looking for Lies Behind the Mask You Wear – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

Be okay with who you are. Let go of who you think you’re supposed to be. Love yourself, accept yourself. Don’t change yourself for anyone; the world will adjust. Be yourself, your true self, everywhere and with everyone. Stop hiding. Just let yourself go, fly and be free!

How Not to Fail

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Inspired by D is for Don’t Give Up and Don’t Give In – DALAI LAMA -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

D is for Don’t Give Up and Don’t Give In – You only fail when you stop trying.  It doesn’t matter how slow you go, as long as you don’t stop.  There are 3 choices: give up, give in, or give it all you’ve got!

Is the Glass Really Half Empty?

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Inspired by C is for consider every angle.- Dalai Lama -LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME AND MAKE IT A MASTERPIECE

Sometimes you need to look at life from a different perspective. How deep is the mud? This depends on who you ask. We all go through things differently. When you’re in a dark place, you may think you have been buried, but really you have been planted. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.